We lead busy lives. We are bombarded with things that demand our time and attention. All too often I find myself doing items that are URGENT but not necessarily IMPORTANT.
I am a list maker. I make lists so as not to forget important items. I like to mark items off my list and it does give me a sense of accomplishment at the end of the day.
I am reminded on a daily basis that I try to include too many items on my "to do list". Often many items on my list are items I do to "please other people" leaving very little time for the items that are important. I have come to the conclusion that life was not meant to be lived on "high speed".
Jesus was never hurried or rushed. He knew what was important and wasn't pressured to do the urgent. The urgent is seldom important and important is seldom urgent. I recently found this list "Less is More" by Karen Havse that really convicted me that I need to guard my time and energy. See if you agree.
"Relationships: Every additional person with whom you try to connect takes energy from others you care about. Make deliberate choices. You don't have to be best friends with the whole congregation at church or everyone on your block. Surface relationships are okay-if based on respect and kindness.
Communication: Every word you say uses energy. Keep opinions, criticisms, and information at a minimum. Try to joke, listen, compliment, and smile more.
Information: In today's cyber age, you could spend every waking moment taking in information. What could you do with the thirty minutes you normally spend watching the news? What if you tossed mail from solicitors unopened?
Responsibility: "But if I don't do it, then no one will." Yes, shirking responsibilities can have consequences. But occasionally the consequences are preferable.
Sensitivity: Love is the greatest gift you have to offer. Make it a priority. However, don't be responsible for the results."
9 comments:
Great post! I often find myself feeling guilty of the way I spend my time.
I sometimes think of that undeniable question we all will be asked when we see Him face to face...."Tell Me, how did you use your life for Me?" It may or may not be in those words exactly...but it will be something like that, and I'm hoping I'll have a good answer. =)
Great list and very true. Lately though it seems that some people are taking my joking and teasing as the truth and turning it into something that I did not mean in the first place...they think it is negative!! Oh well. I guess I just have to be more careful!! I hate it though when it gets brought to me attention and I did not mean it in that way. I am off to the Roberts full day today. SAndy
Hi List Lady. That's a great post. I often find myself sidetracked in my priorities too...trying to please everyone else! Thanks for this.
I'm guilty of also putting too many items on my list lately. I have realized that it has been causing me a lot of stress. It's time that I slow down. Better said than done.
Wish you well!
I don't need to tell you that I am guilty of this. It's time. I have got to slow down and re-prioritize. Thank you for the reminder!
Man did you know I didn't that or what? I think you did! You always do, don't ya? lol Thanks sis...I needed that! Really I did! Love ya!
What wonderful truth! It is important to remember relationships in the business of life. Stopping to smell the roses is a lost art and one we need to practice. It would more than likely lengthen our lives.
That really resonates with me Daisy. Thanks for posting it.
Wonderful thoughts to reflect on! Thanks.
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