Be an example.

Oscar, this is what your dad said about you on Facebook today.

This kid is going to be taller than me. At least a few times a week our clothes match - gray T-shirt and jeans, but today it was intentional. It’s a big responsibility to have someone look up to you and want to be like you. I’m so proud of the young man he is becoming. He makes me want to be a better version of myself

(I think he is right to walk a little taller and set a good example for you what Godly manhood is all about.  You have a great teacher .)  

Proud of you too Buddy.

Your Diva and Poppa